Hey, we've all been in your frustrated position at one time. A little bit more trying, and you'll get the hang of it.
I had clicked on "jjjankovsky's Photo Gallery" under your user name on the left side of your post to get to your gallery. Once there, I selected one of your photos (both were the same, as you stated) by clicking on it once. Once that photo is selected, below that are some code options. I picked the code in the box that follows "Code for bulletin boards:" and pasted it into my post. I think that is explained in the link that John posted above.
To view a larger version of the photo I posted above someone just needs to click onto the photo and that will take the person to viewing the photo in your gallery. Once there, below the boxes of code and the file name is a link titled "Click on image to view larger image". Click on that and we see the larger image.
Hope that helps. If not, have a beer or margarita for me!
