damaclese

many of the aspects of thees kinds of transactions are symptoms of are society in general having been a manager in food service for over 18 years one dos come to some conclusions about thees mater one people are human
and we all bring are particular set of baggage to the tabla but the INTERNET has provided a rather anonymous forum for the carpet baggers to do what carpet baggers do and for that reason its buyer beware i have had some good experiences with on line transactions and some bad. iv even had bad ones with vendors that have good public relations and are highly thought of in there industry unfortunately you just have to try it if it doesn't work out then don't go back don't buy 500$ worth of goods on a first go try say 10$ then if it goes bad you are not out a tremendous amount use common sens all so make it clear what your expectation is Vendors cant read minds lastly and i know this from my own life some people just plain like other People and for that reason they are better at talking with you about your concerns and relish the opportunity to communicate with customers but theirs many that have pore communications skills and have difficulty feed back is good but its not a guaranty ultimately patronizing your local vendor were you can form a relationship is the best way to do business doesn't mater what kind people will most always take care of a naber wont you bend over backward to help a friend out i will i think its pretty clear to me at this point as far as the west cost vendors go who can be trusted and who cant and i and I'm sure many of your are more then willing to share that info via Pm to any one that would ask so communication is the key

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