In addition to what Dan said Female buds usually come from the center and the male blooms on a Herme as Dan so puts it, grow to the sides of the female buds. The pic looks like you have some developing to the sides of the flower but until it grows there is no way of telling. I've have one bud where 2 female flowers developed into fruit hanging from the same stem on a herme as you can see below.. It was raining so its not a perfect picture.. :^)
