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lorax
06-17-2009, 07:22 PM
Tog Tan, known to many members of the IBS as an indespensable font of banana and tropical knowledge, passed away on 16 June 2009 of a heart attack, while driving home with a new load of bananas and other plants. He died doing what he loved.

He is survived by his daughter Stefanie and all of his friends here at the International Banana Society. We will all rembember him for his great sense of humour, his patience, his amazing breadth of knowledge, and his willingness to help anybody with a question.

Tog, you will be sorely missed.

http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=18405

CValentine
06-17-2009, 07:38 PM
Tog...
Just got to start knowing you...
Thanks for all your help...
God Bless your Family...
We will miss you...
Rest In Peace...

~ Cheryl

island cassie
06-17-2009, 07:39 PM
Amen!! Tog you will be sorely missed by us all. Goodbye friend!

Sadly
Cassie

MediaHound
06-17-2009, 07:47 PM
Oh my. We will miss you Tog. What an amazingly spirited man.
You will be dearly missed Tog.

MediaHound
06-17-2009, 07:54 PM
Bananas.org - View Profile: Tog Tan (http://www.bananas.org/member-tog-tan.html)

Banana Gallery - Tog Tan Gallery (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showgallery.php?cat=500&ppuser=3823)

http://www.bananas.org/../image.php?u=3823&dateline=1221658694&type=profile (http://www.bananas.org/member-tog-tan.html)

http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=18226&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=18226&ppuser=3823)

http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=17460&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=17460&ppuser=3823)


http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=17194 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=17194&cat=500&ppuser=3823)

MediaHound
06-17-2009, 07:57 PM
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=18225 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=18225&cat=500&ppuser=3823)

http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=17991&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=17991&ppuser=3823)

http://www.bananas.org/../gallery/watermark.php?file=17195 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=17195&ppuser=3823)

http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=17989 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=17989&ppuser=3823)


http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=17249&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=17249&ppuser=3823)


http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=17138 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=17138&ppuser=3823)

http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=16928 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=16928&ppuser=3823)

Simply Bananas
06-17-2009, 07:58 PM
What a shock!
Tog added so much to all of this. His posts were a delight and his adventurous spirit envied. We'll miss him a lot. Prayers for his family and friends.

Bob
06-17-2009, 08:01 PM
See ya in the after life Old Man.

MediaHound
06-17-2009, 08:07 PM
Tog Tan (1956 - 2009) (http://TogTan.lifememory.com/)

Rmplmnz
06-17-2009, 08:07 PM
Wow...shockingly so very sad.....

Patty in Wisc
06-17-2009, 08:09 PM
I am shocked. Tog was the funniest, most informative all-in-one person on here. I'm glad to have had him for a friend. A very sad loss.
Good bye to you my friend. Tears here & prayers to your family.

MediaHound
06-17-2009, 08:17 PM
Stay strong Stefanie. Your dad was a wonderful person, we will really miss him here as we're sure you will there.

alexizhere19
06-17-2009, 08:21 PM
We will miss you tog, you were a great person who was one of the best people to grow plants, especially bananas. I know I and everyone else who knew you will miss the joy you brought and will continue to bring.

May you now sow your seeds of joy in heaven,

Alex

Heres to you Tog

:nanadrink:

bigdog
06-17-2009, 08:54 PM
I'm at a loss for words.

I'll miss you, Tog. I'm glad I got to know you, and that we were friends (as much of a friend as one can have without ever actually meeting him in person). Rest in Peace, my friend.

Dear God...help us all through this shock and sadness...Amen.

Frank

Patty in Wisc
06-17-2009, 08:55 PM
Only 1 week before your 53rd birthday. I wish we could all have you back - it just won't be the same without you Tog.

Michael_Andrew
06-17-2009, 09:01 PM
Well darn. My deepest condolences to Tog's family and acquaintances. He added so much to the forum. He will be sorely missed.

Michael

Bananaman88
06-17-2009, 09:03 PM
Man, what a blow. And we only knew him through our time with him here at the org. I must say that I always enjoyed the back and forth with Tog because he could dish it out and he could take it just as well. We'll definitely miss you, buddy! Thanks for brightening our lives, if only for a while.

Patty in Wisc
06-17-2009, 09:15 PM
He was a member here for exactly 11 months & sure did make a lot of friends.

Randy4ut
06-17-2009, 09:50 PM
I was just informed of this sad event. Although I never had the opportunity to meet Tog in person, I felt like I knew him pretty well through his wonderful insights and witty responses to all of our posts. What a wonderful human being Tog was and will always be in each of our hearts. Tog will be sorely missed but we MUST remember how much he helped inspire us and uplifted us through his comments. God bless his family and give them, as well as us, comfort in this sad time...

hammer
06-17-2009, 09:54 PM
He made a big diffrence on this website and I am sure he made a big diffrence in the lives of everyone he met. He was always there if there was a question that he could answer and I won't forget any of the jokes that he told. At such a young age he made a big diffrence and he will not be forgotten.

CookieCows
06-17-2009, 10:05 PM
I don't know what to say, this is such a shock. I so loved reading his posts and he never knew because I have been so quiet over the last year.

I'm honored to have been able to benefit from his knowledge and humor. My prayers are for his family. May they be comforted now in their time of grief.

Deb

saltydad
06-17-2009, 10:08 PM
Tog- I was blessed to briefly know you. You were a source of knowledge, humor and collegiality. My prayers for you to find peace, and for your daughter to find solace and growth in your memory. Farewell old new friend. May your trails all be downhill, and without obstruction.

And all the members of the International Banana Society will raise a glass to absent friends.

austinl01
06-17-2009, 10:19 PM
I am shocked, and I cannot believe this! Tog, you were a very funny guy, and your posts always brought a smile to my face with your great sense of humor. You were an awesome dude, that's for sure. We will certainly miss you!

conejov
06-17-2009, 10:23 PM
Godspeed Tog! I was enjoyed reading his posts.

Gabe15
06-17-2009, 10:54 PM
I haven't read a single condolence I don't whole-heartedly agree with...Tog is surely missed, and in his memory lets all keep planting and sharing more bananas, just as Tog would have kept on doing!

harveyc
06-17-2009, 11:16 PM
Just got home from a scout meeting and this is a big shock. Tog has been a great friend and I was just thinking yesterday I'd love to go visit the guy some day. On his recent plant trip when he didn't post for a week I grew worried that something had happened to him and it was a great relief when he let me know he was okay and just very busy. So this is hard to understand. I'm a year behind him age wise but I greatly admired his energy and often pictured him losing me in the jungles (10 miles behind!). He took the time to give me the wonderful black bean advice for my son, Michael and we chatted about many other things.

Many of you saw that Tog recently said his favorite movie was Bang Rajan. Well, I bought a copy on eBay last week but that seller refunded my money and said it was out of stock but I found another seller and a copy was mailed on Monday. Needless to say, I'll soon be watching this movie and it will have some very special significance.

Tog, my dear friend, may His face shine upon you!

Love you pal,

Harvey

stumpy4700
06-17-2009, 11:55 PM
I know I can not say anything that will stop the sadness in your hearts, but It might be reassuring to know that Tog was extremely well respected here. Not only was he a wealth of knowledge, but he was a true friend to anyone who would talk to him. The world is a less place without him and I believe that he is in a truely greater place right now. Thank you Tog for making this site so great..................................................Go rest high on that mountain lil buddy!!!!!!!!!!!

Tog Tan
06-17-2009, 11:58 PM
Hi peeps..

Stefanie here, Tog's daughter. Not sure if it's appropriate to post with his account, but heck, if I created a new one, you guys would probably be confused.

I'm truly touched by this thread and how my dad has inspired you guys in some way or other, be it his knowledge in the reptile n plants industry or his weird/dirty sense of humor or his cigar craze..

Here's a classic picture of me n him

http://img193.imageshack.us/img193/3237/51061037651667887323917.jpg


Us in his nursery

http://img199.imageshack.us/img199/6699/51061037651767887323917.jpg


My dad - The camwhore king!

http://img4.imageshack.us/img4/3479/51061037647067887323917.jpg


He may or may not know it, but I love him to bits though I've haven't been the best daughter around.. n I sure miss him a whole lot!

Thanks again for the thread guys!!

stumpy4700
06-18-2009, 12:01 AM
Stefanie feel free to post here anytime...Sorry for your loss.

scottdurand
06-18-2009, 12:07 AM
Sorry for the family's loss. He was a great asset to the entire world of Banana's! He will be missed greatly here.

Patty in Wisc
06-18-2009, 12:40 AM
I must say I was almost in shock again when I saw a new post by Tog!! I wish!
Stefanie, thank you for posting & showing those fun pics. He was a wonderful man.
May I ask what time it was there when he had his attack? His last post here was Tuesday at 1 pm central which was 2 a.m. your time? He always said he is 13 hours difference (ahead).
You must be very proud of him knowing how many friends he made here who loved him.
Be strong, & another prayer is coming your way for you.

Magilla Gorilla
06-18-2009, 01:03 AM
Stephanie, Andrew here. Thank you for contacting me earlier today. I hope it was o.k. as I contacted several members with the news. Your dad was an awesome man! I was shocked when I opened your e-mail. When I got home this evening the Banana book that Tog mailed me last week was in my mail box. As it sits next to my computer as I write this, I am very saddened. Your dad was very generous and would not take any money from me when we spoke about the book last week. I feel privileged to have known him for the short time. He was full of energy and extremely knowledgeable. He also had a sense of humor. His life was cut way too short! My family is thinking of you and wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow, comfort in the midst of pain.

With Heartfelt Sympathy

He will be missed by all!

momoese
06-18-2009, 01:27 AM
I'm speechless. I would have never thought the bright light known as Tog Tan would leave us. I will most certainly partake in a fine cigar in his honor. I'm so sad now....

RIP in Tog, you are the man!

Mark Hall
06-18-2009, 03:18 AM
My Inbox wont be the same now without my weekly PMs from Tog.
I never got the chance to meet you but from your posts and PMs to me I feel I knew you. I will miss you loads as will the forum. Rest in peace mate.

jasmine2005
06-18-2009, 03:45 AM
im so sorry to hear about tog,ive not been a member for long,but tog came to me first helping me through the forum,making me very welcome,it was like i had known the man for years,a true gentleman,with so much knowledge,my heart goes out to all the family,tog you will be missed by all of us on the bananas org,a truely remarkable man who i shall never forget,god bless you,my thoughts are with you and your family. jazz x

kentgardener
06-18-2009, 03:53 AM
I have just read this very sad news on another forum that Tog and I belong to. I am deeply shocked. His posts were always knowlegeable and often very amusing.

My thoughts and prayers are with Tog's daughter and family at this very sad time.

Rest in peace Tog.

Jack Daw
06-18-2009, 05:10 AM
Although I knew Tog only shortly, I believe it's safe to say that he was one of the most wonderful people I've ever had the pleasure of talking to. I'll surely miss him, not only for the loads of work he had been doing in the tropics, his articles, but also his funny and always joyful humour with which he brought happiness and laughter to many threads and a few PMs I exchanged with him. You'll live forever in our minds, pal.

Bananaman88
06-18-2009, 06:31 AM
Stefanie,

You are certainly welcome here amongst us anytime you wish. You father was greatly admired here and will truly be missed. God bless you and your family.

Dalmatiansoap
06-18-2009, 06:39 AM
Well I have to confess that Im still shocked with this sad news. Whan I checked mail beafore going to work this morning, wow, like thunder in my head, Tog has gone.
What to say, I still cannot find words, but I lost a teacher and FRIEND.
Nobody offered me more help here than him. In fact I can thank him for turning my life in plant growing and as he used to say "opening my eys to green" :).
THANK YOU MY FRIEND!
We ll grow naners toghedher up there once, old mate.
Regards from Croatia
Ante Grbavac
aka Dalmatiansoap

justjoan
06-18-2009, 07:28 AM
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family, such a loss of a young man. I am too new here, but I have read his posts and seen his photo's and his personality certainly shined through. God speed Tog

mskitty38583
06-18-2009, 08:05 AM
wow this is a shock. i loved reading his post. he will be missed.

Christian
06-18-2009, 08:16 AM
Tog asked me to get involved in Ladang Musacea - one of his current dreams, one which he was starting to realise. I was never quite sure what I could contribute, apart from the occasional seeds, but it was nice to be involved from far away. Like many others I was playing with the idea of visiting him in the not too distant future. I love traveling in East Asia, and I have never been to Malaysia. I have been to Thailand and Sri Lanka, and I am going with Phil to Taiwan this year. So I hoped that it would not have been too long before Malaysia would have become reality. I have in person already met two other members of this forum, and I was determined to also meet Tog.

It is very different meeting somebody in reality as to just talking to him by e-mail or on the forum. Maybe we would not have got on..., but Tog: I would have certainly given it a try!!!! :-)

I don't know how many people know that every month Tog was travelling to Thailand to pray to the Four Faced Buddha, something he promised to do till the end of his live.

Without him knowing, the deepest impression he left on me was not anything to do with plants, but about the value of giving. He gave freely, as some of us will have experienced. Of course he was delighted to also 'receive' ('greeding for stuff' as he called it in a funny way), but receiving was not what it seemed all about. Many people including myself are very focused on 'getting' things, but it is little compared with the inner peace one gets from giving. For this I will remember him.

I loved his 'Rocker' T-Shirt. I will keep that picture somewhere, so I will be reminded of him.

Christian

jmoore
06-18-2009, 08:45 AM
Wow, what a shock! It's difficult to know what to write at a time like this. I think it's fair to say he has touched everyone's lives here on the forum, I know he has mine. As Christian said he was such a generous man and was always thinking of other people. On top of that he was a bloody good laugh. I'm truely going to miss him.

James

tony palmer
06-18-2009, 08:47 AM
I feel so saddened and shocked at this terrible news…
We will all miss you Tog.


God bless
My heartfelt condolences to your family

Caloosamusa
06-18-2009, 08:59 AM
Stefanie,

I am sorry for your loss and ours. Tog was a wonderful blessing to all of us for his knowledge, experience and service by sharing his unique place in the world. He will be missed.

You are welcome and encouraged to post here anytime. May God's face shine upon him and you, and give us all peace.

frog7994
06-18-2009, 09:53 AM
yes we will all miss him I'm sure of that. I guess if i had my choice I would rather go quickly too, than dragee it out and be a burden to my family. So he was in god good graces. I ask that knowledge and memories live on with all that were touched by him.

momoese
06-18-2009, 11:09 AM
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=18460&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=18460)

Mark Hall
06-18-2009, 11:33 AM
Looking at some pictures on the web today and seeing a Lasiocarpa in flower reminded me of Tog. So every time I see one now he will pop into my thoughts.

Still can't get my head round the fact that he is gone.

saltydad
06-18-2009, 12:02 PM
Mark- Tog was telling me that, as he was having difficulty receiving e-mails from me, that he also experienced the same thing with you. Hence the high number of PMs. We really lost a friend. As Harvey has mentioned, when we didn't hear from him for a while recently, we were concerned and promised to let each other know as soon as we heard. I wish there would be another good news post from our friend. Stephanie, we may all be a bunch of nutty banana plant fanatics, but we would be honored to have you post here with us in the future. My prayers for you always.....Howard

bigdog
06-18-2009, 12:05 PM
Stefanie,

Thanks for those great pictures of you and your father! I wonder if you had any idea of the impact that he made in all of our lives, despite never having actually met any of us. Well, you do now! A father to be proud of, for sure! I echo Christian's thoughts when he mentions what a giving man he was. I didn't quite grasp the true nature of it until now. He apparently had many, many friends on this forum! What wasn't to like about the man though? He had one of the best attitudes of anyone I've ever run across.

Like some others have also said, please feel free to join the forum. We won't mind you posting under his name!

Best wishes, and my condolences, to you and your family,
Frank

tropical-pete
06-18-2009, 02:44 PM
So sad to hear this, I've read Tog's posts on many forums, this one included and his knowledge and personality was inspirational, and even though I never got to know him on a personal level, this feels very close to home as his posts were wonderful contributions to the community.

Our thoughts are with you all, and Tog will be very much missed by all.

mushtaq86
06-18-2009, 03:21 PM
cant believe he has gone.i was only speaking to him last week,and always going out of his way to help you.
r.i.p tog tan you will be missed on a lot of forums

Eric
06-18-2009, 03:48 PM
I didn't know him very well, but what I knew was all good. He'll be very missed.

fergus banana
06-18-2009, 04:02 PM
thanks for all the help and advice with raising my banana plants, tog tan. we will miss you around here.

harveyc
06-18-2009, 04:15 PM
I hope this doesn't come across as inappropriate, but I just keep thinking about our vulnerability, etc. My son, Michael, is only 11 and I can't help but think about how life would be changed for him if I weren't around in a year (when I'd be the same age as Tog). I sure am not in great physical shape like Tog was but I've tested out okay with my doctor. Still, he had me start taking 81mg of aspirin daily because of risk of heart disease in my family. I recall him saying at the time that my most likely sign of heart disease would be a fatal heart attack. Just something I'm thinking about. I wish Tog was here to chat.

Harvey

Bob
06-18-2009, 04:40 PM
We know how you mean it Harvey. Now I guess I'll start calling you old man (I'm 48). I'm going to miss giving him the business and getting it back double as well. In private he often called me " young punk".

Patty in Wisc
06-18-2009, 05:47 PM
http://www.bananas.org/f12/what-3ft-druiting-dwraf-anyone-7363.html

Posts 20 & 21 says it all!! :) Love ya Tog

alexizhere19
06-18-2009, 05:47 PM
Since I was a member Tog was always fun to talk to. He was always excited about what he was doing, He never was down and was alway ready to have fun. My dad has had a heart attack and it made me realize wat can haappen in the blink of an eye.

We miss you Tog,

Alex

Chironex
06-18-2009, 06:19 PM
Dear Stephanie and family,
I just heard of Tog's passing moments ago. I admired his spirit, passion and sense of humor. I respected his knowledge and loved his story-telling, jokes and joi-de-vivre!
He was a remarkable friend and I will miss him greatly. We were planning to get together when I move to China. Wow, I just can't believe it! My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Feel free to email me if you wish. My email address is in your Dad's address book, or you can click the link in my profile here. We emailed each other frequently. We often played havoc on the threads of others on this board (Tog, Lorax and me - with some other accomplices from time to time) but all in good fun. In fact, he was one of the reasons that I kept checking into this site.
Yes, he was one in a million!!! Take care old friend, I will see you when I get there.
Scot

D_&_T
06-18-2009, 07:23 PM
Condolences to Tog's Family.

Going to miss his surprize of the day wether it be a joke or Look what I found today!

The Hollyberry Lady
06-18-2009, 07:50 PM
http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/403.gif

Words cannot describe how shocked and affected I am by this news. First of all, my deepest sympathy and condolences, go out to you, Stephanie. My own father died suddenly of a heart attack at 52, so I know just how you feel! So sorry dear - I see how close you were with him, by all the pics. What a lovely girl you are - look so much like him.

A couple of weeks ago, Tog and I began chatting through email, back and forth. Lorax (Beth) introduced us, and I was very much enjoying our banana chats.

I am currently waiting on some seeds from Tog, that he mailed me only a couple of weeks ago! I should get them tomorrow or Monday! I am so going to cherish those banana seeds now more than ever, and always remember that they came from such a generous, friendly, and wonderful person.

Even in the short time I knew Tog, his personality came through, and I liked him right from the start. What a super guy. I told him I'd contact him by email, the very second I received the seeds, but sadly I think I will cry when I receive them - like I am now.

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/pic-6050-thumb.jpg

I will be sure to post a pic of the envelope and the seeds that Tog was kind and generous enough to send me. Thank you, friend. I will grow your seeds the best I can, and I appreciate all the knowledge you passed onto me. My only way to show my gratitude to you, is to grow your banana plants to be as wonderful and vibrant as you were.

Goodbye my friend and thank you. Until we meet again...http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/gard23.jpg

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/avatar_4653-2.gif

Sherry

Scuba_Dave
06-18-2009, 07:52 PM
Ohhhhh...I saw the Adult humor thread 1st & was hoping this was some inside joke :(

Rest in Peace

Patty in Wisc
06-18-2009, 08:25 PM
A Quote from Tog Tan:

Thanks people, u were great, I really love y'all!
:ha::ha::ha::ha::ha::ha::ha::ha::ha:

wildorc118
06-18-2009, 09:04 PM
I got to know Tog only a few months ago through a common friend. In that short few months, we have only done 1 trip up to his favorite spot to look at Palm trees and Banana.

We were planning to have another trip to Rompin.

Just last Sat, we were chating and having fun on our way to Seremban nursery.

Now he has left us. I really wsh i have known him much much longer or he could stay back a few more years.

I really miss this energitic, humourous, knowledgeble, friendly and most important of all, unselfish, willing to share and kind.

Tog, I really miss you and your accompany.... and your favorite cigar smell....

You will be remembered, that is for sure.

Rest In Peace.


Regards,
YC from Kuala Lumpur

hydroid
06-18-2009, 09:26 PM
I will miss Tog alot, he was always helpful and so friendly, I feel like we have been old friends. I just lost my mother last month and my heart goes out to Tog and his family.
Although, I don't post as much as I should since I work offshore (28/14) but have made myself a promise to post more and enjoy the fellowship and all we have here with our friends. Godspeed my friend.
hydroid

bepah
06-18-2009, 09:26 PM
Wow....what a shock.....I will miss him.

buzzwinder
06-18-2009, 09:58 PM
God speed Tog, I will truly miss your quick wit and infinate wisdom and wonderful sense of humor. Stephanie, mine and my families prayers and best wishes are with you and yours! Tog, for you my friend :bananas_b:nanadrink: You will be missed dearly!

Basjoofriend
06-19-2009, 04:55 AM
Oh no, it was a shock for me! I will also miss Tog Tan, I've asked him for some pics for my new English version of my banana book. In the age of 53 years is too early to die, I'm only 7 years younger.

I hoped, that he also will support me together with Helton (Frutas Raras) in my banana project in Brazil with his expericences and seeds for Helton and me. My project is still in the begins, and this is also a big loss for me to loose one of the importantest banana experts.

But Tog Tan lives further in the bananas and also in my book. Bananas were his life!

Stefanie, you have to stay strong. And keep his bananas and his experiences, this is surely the last wish of your dad! You are welcome in the every case in the forum, Tog Tan lives in you further!

Best wishes
Basjoofriend

Bigleafist
06-19-2009, 08:32 AM
I have been a member on here for some time, but never got around to posting, but the shock of hearing about Tog, who I met on another forum, is too much and I need to convey my sadness.

I too only knew him for a couple of months, but his personality, energy and humour was infectious. I can only echo what has been said already.

I think of Tog every time I look out of the window now. I asked him if he was growing Siam Ruby, and his reply was "Siam Ruby? You mean Siam Weedby? :ha::ha:" That echos in my mind everytime I look at my Siam Weedby just outside the window.

Stefanie, It must be difficult for you right now, but there are lots of people from all around the globe sharing your sudden sense of loss. Such was your father's infectious popularity.

He will be sadly missed by all who knew him.

Dave

mskitty38583
06-19-2009, 08:41 AM
stefanie, you are most welcome here.your dad was loved here by all. he was a banana genius. and his pictures are some of the best ive seen. you have support here if you need us. his sence of humor got me over some of the rough spots when i was having a bad day. and he always made me smile. if you need us send out pms to talk, this is something you can not deal alone by keeping it inside.

saltydad
06-19-2009, 12:46 PM
Jarred, just wanted to say what a nice web page you made for Tog.

revensen
06-19-2009, 01:07 PM
You could always count on Tog for great advice. Although I've only been on the board for a month, it was a pleasure to interact with him. I've read so many threads on bananas.org and Tog always had something to offer. Whether it was advice, a laugh or even offering to send something. He had a fantastic way of keeping it simple and effective.

So much knowledge and such a willingness to teach. I'll miss you and wish I had more time to get to know you.

Patty in Wisc
06-19-2009, 01:11 PM
Jarred, just wanted to say what a nice web page you made for Tog.

Yes! And Lorax for posting the memorium with that wonderful newer pic of him. I remember when he posted it.
He was a wiz on more plants than I ever heard of. I got some Dragon Tree seeds & posted a pic of the tree I got the seeds from. He said they should sprout in 2 weeks & they did- in EXACTLY 2 weeks. Then, he posted pics of his seedlings and told me the scientific name is Dracaena Draco - I never woulda known. He had everything growing at his nursery besides bananas. Tog and Lorax know plants more than anyone I know.

damaclese
06-19-2009, 01:28 PM
I don't believe there are words to adequately describe how i feel about Togs passing. We chatted almost daily. he was one of the funnest smartest guys iv had the privilege to have known. I will miss him!!!
May I express my deepest sympathies to his Family. I am sure the suddenness of his untimely death must have been a triable shock to you just as it was to me. My Hart goes out to you all. I will say a Prayer for him at Mass this Sunday. May Gods Blessings Be Apon You

Lagniappe
06-19-2009, 05:34 PM
You guys said nearly everything I wanted to say.
I posted a pic of my Florida Variegate corm just moments before I found this thread. When I saw the pic in my gallery, I wondered what Tog would have to say about it. If not for that, I would have never posted it. I could count on him to lift me up or give me hell....same thing. I would end up smiling either way.

One reality hit me during all of this, we are all an integral part of this family and make this place what it is..special. Tog made it all the more so.
Don't take anyone for granted, and appreciate the very brief time we've been given to impact one anothers lives. Tog made an impact in many.
I often wished that I were more like him.

saltydad
06-19-2009, 05:40 PM
Amen Pete.

Scuba_Dave
06-19-2009, 05:41 PM
Besides the Welcome PM I have recd only 1 other PM
Tog Tan wishing me a Happy Birthday

Patty in Wisc
06-19-2009, 05:50 PM
Tog made an impact in many.
I often wished that I were more like him.

Pete, you gotta start smoking big cigars. And, if a monkey bites you, growl, show your teeth, & bite it back! :ha::ha::ha::ha:
(Tog said he really did that!)
Tog told me to growl at my raccoons - showing my teeth to scare them away. It always worked for him but I'm too chicken

damaclese
06-19-2009, 07:13 PM
You guys said nearly everything I wanted to say.
I posted a pic of my Florida Variegate corm just moments before I found this thread. When I saw the pic in my gallery, I wondered what Tog would have to say about it. If not for that, I would have never posted it. I could count on him to lift me up or give me hell....same thing. I would end up smiling either way.

One reality hit me during all of this, we are all an integral part of this family and make this place what it is..special. Tog made it all the more so.
Don't take anyone for granted, and appreciate the very brief time we've been given to impact one anothers lives. Tog made an impact in many.
I often wished that I were more like him.

Well said Pete iv been kinda melancholy all day so i baked a cake what els would a chef do to brighten his or her spirits on a sad day like this all be thinking of tog when i eat it i used Ashen lime seemed appropriate!

momoese
06-19-2009, 07:54 PM
Pauly, an apropriate cake would have some sort of half born duck egg or something mixed in! Some of the threads he started here are so classic! Maybe they should be put in a special section for safe keeping?

Eric
06-19-2009, 08:01 PM
Tog was one of the most intelligent and enlightened people I have ever had the honour of encountering. I agree with Momoese. His knowlege and light should be preserved for all to learn from.

Bob
06-19-2009, 08:49 PM
Ah ****,....... the old bastard I know and love would want to keep things moving not set up a stagnant shrine. You want to honor Tog Tan .... document and record the life of your plants in the wiki or elsewhere. None of us do that and bananas are confusing even for the best of us.Most of all me I know, but thats what he was about.,

Eric
06-19-2009, 09:02 PM
Thanx Bob,
You just said what I just pm'd to Lorax. BTW, I posted a whole new album, this evening, and was surprised no-one had run my photos off the front-page yet.
I remembered him, as I posted from time to time, but all this was Tog's dream just as it's ours. You're right; maybe it's time to keep those dreams alive.
Michael James
Ps. I dare anyone, with Tog's spirit, to run my photos off that page with thier own.

Las Palmas Norte
06-19-2009, 10:42 PM
I did not know Tog personally but recalled many of his posts and expertise. This is infintesimal in comparison to the loss his family and friends must endure.
Hopefully a planting can be made in your or a family garden in memory. A smile will surely follow.

Cheers, Barrie.

Matt Turner
06-20-2009, 01:33 AM
I haven't been a member of this forum for very long, and I'm not the world's best poster, but getting in contact with Tog was on the top of my "things to do" list. I wanted his opinions and advice about many things. It was a shock to learn that I will never be able to do that.

For me Tog was the face of bananas.org itself! His comments seemed to be on every thread, and if they weren't references to him were!

I was honoured when, on my first "member introduction" post someone called me the "Tog of Japan" (presumably because I sounded knowledgeable about a botanical topic). But Tog was clearly much more than an authoritative source of knowledge - it is obvious from this thread and innumerable others that he was just an all round nice guy. I miss Tog Tan without even having had any contact with him!

paula
06-20-2009, 07:06 AM
I Am So Very Sorry. He Always Answered All My Posts.
We Will Miss You .paula

Bananaman88
06-20-2009, 08:13 AM
Yeah, a belut (or however it's spelled) cake! If it were a birthday cake, you could have cigars instead of candles.

saltydad
06-20-2009, 11:27 AM
wildorc118_ Hey YC welcome! You have fulfilled what to many of us here was only a dream, to go on a jungle trek with Tog. I hope you hang around and join with us here; Tog seemed to like us!

Tog Tan
06-20-2009, 11:53 AM
Yeah, a belut (or however it's spelled) cake! If it were a birthday cake, you could have cigars instead of candles.

Guys, I wasn't about to reply till I could figure what else to say, but I can't help it when I saw this.. Of course you can have cigars as candles, this was taken on my dad's 52nd birthday last year;

http://img199.imageshack.us/img199/764/p6230013.jpg

Been a hectic week but I'll post again soon.

musaboru
06-20-2009, 12:27 PM
I am very shocked. I am sorry I did not see this until today. It is sad to lose such a very nice member as Tog. Its not going to be the same without him here. My condolences goes out to him, his daughter Stefanie and his family. Once again, very shocked here. He will surely be missed by me.

Patty in Wisc
06-20-2009, 05:43 PM
That is a great pic of Tog!!! :)
Nice Tshirt - 2 sperms on it LOL

The Hollyberry Lady
06-20-2009, 07:01 PM
Yes, the pics really make it seem like Tog is still here with us. Thank you for them.

Also, here is one of many emails from Tog - this one in particular, I thought Beth would especially appreciate...

Hi Sherry,

That was quick! Beth is like a God Daughter to me so it’s nice to have something for her friends.

I will run through my lil black box and see what viable sds I still have. I order alot for my project but I actually need only a couple cos they grow like crazy here. Btw, I am in Malaysia and I am in the ornamental plant business. However, I am personally a crazy plant guy and I have quite a collection of stuff. You can check out my photo gallery at the .org. As for ‘naner species/varieties you can check out the stuff I have in my profile.
I am a little confused by your add; you in England? It looks like an English add to me but the Ontario, Canada thingy is kinda confusing!
You can try Mark Hall in London for some exchange or whatever. He’s a mate of mine. Nice English gentleman. Coming to dwarf cultivars, it is sad to say there aren’t many which are true dwarves for container growing. I am experimenting with an heirloom cultivar from here which is not the typical stumpy dwarf ‘naner. It looks like a normal ‘naner scaled down in size. Very elegant and the fruits are supposed to be very good tasting. I did an intro thread on it under the Container Grown Forum.
I will get back to you once I run through my box.

Regards,

Tog

Bananaman88
06-20-2009, 11:17 PM
Thanks for taking the time to check in with us, Stefanie. I cannot imagine how you had time with all you must have going on this past week. You are still in our prayers.

I love the photo you posted of your Dad! He and I used to pick at each other in the forums here. When I commented about a cake with cigars for candles, I never dreamed there would be an actual photo like that. I may make that my screen saver if you don't mind. It's a great pic of your Dad.


Guys, I wasn't about to reply till I could figure what else to say, but I can't help it when I saw this.. Of course you can have cigars as candles, this was taken on my dad's 52nd birthday last year;

http://img199.imageshack.us/img199/764/p6230013.jpg

Been a hectic week but I'll post again soon.

Mark Hall
06-21-2009, 04:45 AM
I would like to send a card to Stefanie and Sally. But I have deleted Sallys address. Can anyone PM me her address please.

Tog sent so many PMs that it soon filled up the in box and it must have been deleted after I sent him a few bits.

Thanks
Mark

island cassie
06-21-2009, 08:18 AM
Mark - I have pm'd you.

wildorc118
06-21-2009, 08:42 AM
wildorc118_ Hey YC welcome! You have fulfilled what to many of us here was only a dream, to go on a jungle trek with Tog. I hope you hang around and join with us here; Tog seemed to like us!

Thanks. Now I only wish i could go out with him on another trip just once more (which we planne to be next week to Rompin).
Our trip out was superb but it was just too short.
Tog took me to his favorite spot at Ulu Langat.
He showed me a very tall banana (cant remember ID but it changes colour when matured), his favorite palms, and many other plants along the way.
One the way down the hill, there is a stream which I took following picture using my cell phone (I took some for Tog using his camera)

Tog holding this beautiful plant while I took photo:
http://i712.photobucket.com/albums/ww128/wildcac/210520091393.jpg

Well, I am very new to planting banana... and Tog was very kind (Tog is always very kind to share his plant and knowledge during my limited visit to his house) to give me one of his favorite dwarf banana. Will show picture next time...

I will come back to this forum more but please be patience with me as I am very very new to banana

Mark Hall
06-21-2009, 10:07 AM
Thank you to all who sent me Togs sisters address.

Bch Grl
06-21-2009, 11:39 AM
I have just returned from the Keys on vacation to this sad news. I haven't posted much lately, but frequently read what going on.

So sad to hear of Tog's passing. I only knew him through reading his posts here, but felt his personality and knowledge shine thru.

RIP Tog Tan and thank for sharing with us.

Margie

griphuz
06-22-2009, 07:20 AM
My condoleances to Tog's family and friends. May they havwe strength in the hard times comming. Like many I did not know Tog personally, but was always very intrigued by his posts, and amused by his sence of humor. What a shame :(
Kind regards,
Remko.

STERLING
06-23-2009, 07:20 AM
I haven't been on here much in the last week or two, but my sympathies to Tog's family. I only conversated with Tog a few times, but such a loss! RIP

marenmar
06-23-2009, 03:02 PM
How sad to hear that Tog Tan has passed away so early. He must have been a very special person to many of you. My condoleances to his beloved ones. Strength to you all.

Marguérite

Patty in Wisc
06-23-2009, 03:10 PM
this was taken on my dad's 52nd birthday last year;

http://img199.imageshack.us/img199/764/p6230013.jpg



Today would've been Tog's 53rd birthday.
Still miss you Tog...wish you were here.

The Hollyberry Lady
06-23-2009, 03:10 PM
"Only the good die young"

Bob
06-23-2009, 03:16 PM
"Only the good die young"

Thanks HBL, I'll be here a while.:woohoonaner:

saltydad
06-23-2009, 03:18 PM
G-d Bless You, Tog Tan. Happy Birthday.

NotherNana
06-23-2009, 03:19 PM
I had originally come to the board to ask about a little musa I planted last week, only to find this post. Out of respect, I think I'll ask another day.
I was only just getting to know him, being a new member. I'm dumbstruck. God, we get so little time, we should cherish each moment. God bless and keep him. I know he'd have taught me many things. :(
Gino

saltydad
06-23-2009, 03:27 PM
I had originally come to the board to ask about a little musa I planted last week, only to find this post. Out of respect, I think I'll ask another day.
I was only just getting to know him, being a new member. I'm dumbstruck. God, we get so little time, we should cherish each moment. God bless and keep him. I know he'd have taught me many things. :(
Gino

Gino- Tog was all about the acquiring and dissemination of knowledge, so I would post your question in the appropriate thread.

Patty in Wisc
06-23-2009, 03:38 PM
G-d Bless You, Tog Tan. Happy Birthday.

Nothing wrong with saying GOD Bless You

saltydad
06-23-2009, 03:43 PM
Nothing wrong with saying GOD Bless You
Jewish tradition holds that we never write out G-d in full. Just the way I was brought up. :-)

Judaism does not prohibit writing the Name of God per se; it prohibits only erasing or defacing a Name of God. However, observant Jews avoid writing any Name of God casually because of the risk that the written Name might later be defaced, obliterated or destroyed accidentally or by one who does not know better. Observant Jews avoid writing a Name of God on web sites like this one because there is a risk that someone else will print it out and deface it. To avoid writing the Name, Orthodox (http://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/Judaism/ortho.html) Jews (and sometimes other denominations) substitute letters or syllables, for example, writing "G-d" instead of "God."

Dalmatiansoap
06-23-2009, 03:44 PM
Happy birthday my FRIEND!

harveyc
06-23-2009, 07:05 PM
Wish Tog was here to celebrate his birthday. I'll akways remember him as youthful in spirit, energetic, and a super friend.

alexizhere19
06-23-2009, 07:33 PM
We miss you tog,

Happy Birthday and this ones for you

:nanadrink:

alex

buzzwinder
06-23-2009, 09:33 PM
We miss you tog,

Happy Birthday and this ones for you

:nanadrink:

alex

Amen to that, to Tog Tan on his birthday, may he always be in our Hearts!!!
:bananas_b :nanadrink: Thank You Tog :nanadrink:

Patty in Wisc
06-23-2009, 11:09 PM
I'm sorry Howard, I did not know that. Thanks for explaining.:)
Ya know, if Tog was here, I wonder if he'd even tell us that it's his birthday. He was too humble/shy to have everyone wish him happy birthday.
Hey Stefanie, thanks for posting that pic...it's my favorite!

momoese
06-23-2009, 11:37 PM
Happy Birthday Tog!. I hope your burning a fatty wherever you are.

saltydad
06-23-2009, 11:58 PM
I'm sorry Howard, I did not know that. Thanks for explaining.:)
Ya know, if Tog was here, I wonder if he'd even tell us that it's his birthday. He was too humble/shy to have everyone wish him happy birthday.
Hey Stefanie, thanks for posting that pic...it's my favorite!

Hey Patty, apologies not necessary. I was telling Gino that when I was much younger, I told a co-worker when she came back from lunch that she had some dirt on her forehead. I was given a polite education in the meaning of Ash Wednesday...LOL.

Magilla Gorilla
06-24-2009, 12:10 AM
Hey Patty, apologies not necessary. I was telling Gino that when I was much younger, I told a co-worker when she came back from lunch that she had some dirt on her forehead. I was given a polite education in the meaning of Ash Wednesday...LOL.

Tog would laugh at that! I did. :)

saltydad
06-24-2009, 12:57 AM
Tog would be laughing his ass off right now since we managed to derail his own thread. See Tog, the International Derailers Association continues your proud legacy.

:nanadrink:

alexizhere19
06-24-2009, 12:59 PM
It seems i have got to learn the art of derailing good threads, and if i have my way i will become the best thread derailer in the ORG. I'll make tog proud.

LOL

alex

The Hollyberry Lady
06-25-2009, 02:32 PM
http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/Red-Wink.gif

I am happy to report that I finally received the banana seeds from Tog, today! Wow - those took awhile. So worth the wait, though. Just sorry I can't email Tog, and tell him I got them, so I'll tell you guys, instead.

I took a picture of the envelope for you guys to see, with a label over my particulars. The stamps are so cool.

Check out how many kinds of banana seeds he sent me. I am so thrilled. http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/2.gif



Thank you Tog - you were so nice to do this for me. I will germinate the seeds exactly as you instructed me to, and try to make you proud, with my results. Your spirit will still be very much alive and well, in all your banana plants left behind.

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/DSCI0506.jpg

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/DSCI0507.jpg

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/DSCI0508.jpg

Getting your envelope today Tog, really made my day. Even from the great beyond...

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/152365-2.gif



Thanks again, friend.

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/misc117.jpg

saltydad
06-25-2009, 04:51 PM
I just found out that I have lost another close friend, someone who helped me considerably through a time of great stress and angst. I'm not sure why two such grand fellows were taken so early, but Tog and Earle, you're both on my list of heroes. No more please.

Bigleafist
06-25-2009, 04:57 PM
OMG - He was 2 weeks younger than me. :eek:

CookieCows
06-25-2009, 08:03 PM
I'm so sorry Howard. I pray that you find comfort.

Deb

buzzwinder
06-25-2009, 08:27 PM
Nobody has posted this song yet, That I know of, I can only think of the the title lyric when I reflect on the chat and postings, But, Yes Only The Good Die Young
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And yeah Bob, I'm here with ya Bro on that note :ha: :bananas_b

Patty in Wisc
06-26-2009, 12:56 AM
My sympathies Howard. I guess the older we get, these things happen more often.
My Dad was 2nd oldest of 6 siblings & the last one to die. All of his friends died. His wife (my stepmother) died in '81 & then his girlfriend (old classmate) died late 90's after 10(?) yrs together (they both re-met at their class reunion). I don't know if I'd want to live that long & see everyone go. Makes me think I better make out a will!

MediaHound
06-26-2009, 12:42 PM
http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/Red-Wink.gif

I am happy to report that I finally received the banana seeds from Tog, today! Wow - those took awhile. So worth the wait, though. Just sorry I can't email Tog, and tell him I got them, so I'll tell you guys, instead.

I took a picture of the envelope for you guys to see, with a label over my particulars. The stamps are so cool.

Check out how many kinds of banana seeds he sent me. I am so thrilled. http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/2.gif



Thank you Tog - you were so nice to do this for me. I will germinate the seeds exactly as you instructed me to, and try to make you proud, with my results. Your spirit will still be very much alive and well, in all your banana plants left behind.

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/DSCI0506.jpg

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/DSCI0507.jpg

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/DSCI0508.jpg

Getting your envelope today Tog, really made my day. Even from the great beyond...

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/152365-2.gif



Thanks again, friend.

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/misc117.jpg

I saved the stamps when he sent me some seeds also a couple months ago. :2722: :drum:

The Hollyberry Lady
06-26-2009, 12:51 PM
Sure feels great to receive seeds from the 'banana king', doesn't it MediaHound?!!!

Here's a list of what Tog sent me:

1. Musa ornata var Pink flower
2. Musa ornata var Purple flower
3. Musa siamensis
4. Musa beccarii
5. Musella lasiocarpa
6. Musa velutina (dasycarpa)

I celebrated their arrival, by soaking some in water and beginning the germination process. Yippeeeee. Tog's varieties, are wonderful.

: )

Bob
06-26-2009, 01:22 PM
I saved the stamps when he sent me some seeds also a couple months ago. :2722: :drum:
Funny, I did too. Now I'm glad I did.

harveyc
06-27-2009, 08:30 PM
Another forum member and I were hoping to get some special mangosteen seeds from Tog but Tog let me know earlier this month that the crop this year was a wipeout. I wish I had them now more just to have something physical to help me look at to remember him and his kindness. I'm very happy for those of you that are getting the chance to grow some of his banana seeds!

Harv

banfan
06-27-2009, 09:49 PM
On my last vist to the org back on 6-16 I was looking at the photo of Tog Tan with the blood on his arm from the snake bite, reading the caption, and wondering to myself, how does this amazing guy do all that he does with such good humor? He will certainly be missed by all of us here at the org. I offer my sincere condolences to his family and many friends. God's speed Tog Tan! We'll meet again on the perfect banana farm in the hereafter.

Greenie
06-28-2009, 01:10 AM
My Condolences to Tog's Family.

island cassie
06-28-2009, 12:21 PM
I collected some seed for Tog from the tobacco fields here and he was going to try to grow and roll his own cigars (not sure his thigh would be as good as a maidens though!). If anyone would like a pinch of it (it is like dust) - pm me with your address and I'll be happy to send it free of charge until I run out. I think he would like the gesture.

Bob
06-28-2009, 02:41 PM
PM sent.

momoese
06-29-2009, 10:02 AM
How To Roll A Cigar - Video (http://www.metacafe.com/watch/879409/how_to_roll_a_cigar/)

Ueberwinden
06-29-2009, 07:11 PM
WOW, I just don't know what to say about this!!! I had been communicating with Tog over the winter and into the spring, and we had discussed dealing togather with bananas, alocasia, and other tropicals. From time to time he wouldn't get an email I would send, and I wouldn't get one he would send. So I thought nothing about not hearing from him for weeks at a time. I had dropped below the radar for the last month or so, so I have been out of touch with what is going on. I just don't know what to say. Tog was very knowledgable about his native plants, and he had large plans for the future. I wish I had half of the very, very nice plants he was able to collect. I will miss you dear friend.

Michael

Midwest Aquatics and Exotics

Patty in Wisc
06-29-2009, 09:13 PM
I collected some seed for Tog from the tobacco fields here and he was going to try to grow and roll his own cigars (not sure his thigh would be as good as a maidens though!). If anyone would like a pinch of it (it is like dust) - pm me with your address and I'll be happy to send it free of charge until I run out. I think he would like the gesture.
How did I know that BOB would be the first to respond LOL!!
Cassie, what do you mean about a "thigh... as good as a maidens"? Guess I gotta smoke cigars more often LOL.

harveyc
06-29-2009, 09:36 PM
How did I know that BOB would be the first to respond LOL!!
Cassie, what do you mean about a "thigh... as good as a maidens"? Guess I gotta smoke cigars more often LOL.

Were good Cuban cigars ever hand rolled on the inside of a Maidens... (http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/524323)

island cassie
06-29-2009, 10:28 PM
Patty - Howard has given you the answer, but good job I am not a cigar smoker as I don't think the thigh rolling would be a good selling point for me. The only cigars I have seen made were done in a similar manner to Mitchell's video clip - and made by men! There was a guy sitting on the sidewalk in town last Saturday rolling cigars.

In May I went back to England and took back 2 sorts of coronas, some churchills and some torpedos for a friend who was over from Germany at the same time. Good timing as it was his birthday then too.

harveyc
06-29-2009, 11:29 PM
Howard? Guess I've been called worse! :P

Bob
06-30-2009, 09:04 AM
How To Roll A Cigar - Video (http://www.metacafe.com/watch/879409/how_to_roll_a_cigar/)

Just had a flashback to the 1970's.

Who would have expected when this thread was started it would "evolve".....me!

saltydad
06-30-2009, 12:07 PM
Just had a flashback to the 1970's.

Who would have expected when this thread was started it would "evolve".....me!

LOL!!

http://www.tvgasm.com/shows/vivaHollywood1/cheech__chong_4.jpg

Dalmatiansoap
07-03-2009, 04:37 AM
I was just feeling right to put pictures of these plants here because they germinated from some of seeds Tog has send to me in one of ours exchanges.
I miss his advices more and more every day.
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=18937&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=18937&ppuser=4565)
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=18938&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=18938&ppuser=4565)
:woohoonaner:

The Hollyberry Lady
07-03-2009, 08:37 AM
http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/2986-4.gif

So cool, Dalmatiansoap!

I hope to be looking at the same thing very soon. I have Tog's seeds just freshly sown, so they're not quite up, yet. Great that you will have one of the best connections to him - his banana plants!

Good luck with growing them - they look fantastic.

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/2-4.gif

Mark Hall
07-03-2009, 08:59 AM
I have an Alocasia that Tog sent me and I keep it on the window sill next to the Computer. Every time I see it , it reminds me of him.
Hope his seeds germinate too.

I do still miss him and his jokey PMs.

island cassie
07-03-2009, 11:08 AM
Ooops! Sorry Harvey - in my defense, it was late!!

LilRaverBoi
07-03-2009, 01:41 PM
OMG wow! This comes as such a HUGE shock to me! I've been away from the site the past couple of weeks while I traveled a bit to see family/friends. Things like this always make me realize how short life is and why we must cherish every last moment.

I feel truly blessed and fortunate to have known tog through the site....even if it were only for a matter of months. He was such a huge inspiration to me and has definitely had a positive effect on my life. I was always amazed at his unending knowledge of reptiles and plants, his wonderful sense of humor, generosity and very kind nature. He always had such a positive, light-hearted energy about him and I will always miss that. Tog inspired me to start growing Ensete's and gave me quite a bit of knowledge about them. I finally have a small Ensete Superbum and I think I'm going to name it Tog in his honor. It wasn't from him, but I feel it is a way I can honor and remember him. I hope that he would have appreciated this. I hope his family plants an Ensete on his grave.

This is such a huge loss to everyone he touched throughout his life. My best wishes and most sincere condolences go out to his daughter and all his family/friends. Stefanie, your father was a very wonderful man! *hugs*

I would like to posthumously thank him for all the knowledge he has given me and to thank him for being such an overwhelming inspiration. Tog, you were such an amazing person in every way. Your passing is a great loss for all of us and you will be remembered with kind regards forever.

http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=15401&size=1
I always loved this picture of him. It is entitled "Me and my 'bum" which I always thought really depicted his sense of humor. I'm saving it to my computer now to always have it to remember him by. Well everyone.....a moment of silence to contemplate the greatness, achievements, memories and thoughts of such an amazing soul.

You'll always have a special place in all of our hearts, Tog!

Bob
07-03-2009, 01:51 PM
A note of thanks to Scot (Chironex) for sending me a batch of M. violascens (pisang Tok) seeds from Tog in the original baggie. It still had Togs incredibly tiny printing on it. They're soaking now. It seems fitting to mention that the old man told Scot he should put them in his mouth and imagine them growing before sowing. I got a good chuckle out of this knowing his sense of humor. Still, they will spend some time in the "pie hole" before planting.....guess you get the last laugh buddy.:ha:

saltydad
07-04-2009, 02:36 AM
Ooops! Sorry Harvey - in my defense, it was late!!

Cassie- for me to be confused with Harvey is quite a compliment IMHO.

harveyc
07-04-2009, 10:08 AM
LOL, Howard. If you only knew me better!!! ;)

Eric
07-12-2009, 12:03 AM
I'm still learning, Tog. Made it to Other Plants. Just wish there'd been more time.

Chironex
07-12-2009, 01:27 AM
It seems i have got to learn the art of derailing good threads, and if i have my way i will become the best thread derailer in the ORG. I'll make tog proud.

LOL

alex

As one of the founding members of the derailing hit team (Tog and Lorax being the my fellow founding co-conspirators) I welcome you. Of course, we will have to see your work first-hand and if you pass, membership. It is indeed a worthy aspiration and I look forward to your deft touch. Well, agouti go now.

lorax
07-12-2009, 11:00 AM
Are you sure you guanta tapir off here, Scot?

Alex, welcome to Threadwrecks R Us. I look forward to seeing more of your work.

alexizhere19
07-12-2009, 11:38 AM
Thanks,

Is there any good tips to this derailing art. Pointers are helpful. i would ask if there is an appropriate time to derail but seeing as we manage to derail a memorial nuff said

alex

alexizhere19
07-12-2009, 11:40 AM
I think i just helped derail a thread by discussing thread derailing, lol.

jack hagenaars
07-12-2009, 02:41 PM
Wow! What a shock!.....Although I did not know him,I certainly knew of him. My thoughts to his family and friends......

southlatropical
07-14-2009, 08:49 AM
Tog seemed to really enjoy life. He was also very generous, sending me seeds after I simply mentioned that I liked a ginger in one of the photos he posted.

southlatropical
07-14-2009, 08:57 AM
Tog seemed to really enjoy life. He was also very generous, sending me seeds after I simply mentioned that I liked a ginger in one of the photos he posted.

Dalmatiansoap
07-16-2009, 03:00 AM
Full month without You.
Im honored for beenig Your friend.
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=15670&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=15670)
Miss You Tog Tan
Ante

Patty in Wisc
07-16-2009, 12:39 PM
Great pic Ante. I haven't seen this one before. :)

snc
07-16-2009, 01:33 PM
Wow what a shock and a huge loss. I just noticed lilraverbois signature and found this thread. Tog always had a wealth of information and was always willing to offer advice, solicited or not. I learned much from his posts and was envious of his post of hunting down new plants and bananas. You will be missed my friend.

kaczercat
07-17-2009, 12:53 AM
WELL that was the biggest shocker all week i just was informed of Togs passing how very sad , we'll miss ya Tog He was such a wise man . I i was wondering why i hadn't seen his Chinese yellow banana flower in any posts and now i know why:( RIP Tog )

albert_2001
07-17-2009, 01:05 PM
Stefanie,
I am sorry for your loss.Condolences to Tog's Family.

I'm new here, but reading comments from Tog's friends is that it was a great man.

I'm Sorry, I have not come here before.

I was enjoyed see his gallery. I love palm trees and banana .
I will continue reading their posts and learn from it.

Tog Tan
07-20-2009, 01:02 AM
Hi guys, it's me again..

My aunts wanted to post something but we never really had the time. We have gotta clean after his many huge collections of various things; plants, comics, model kits, cigars... and we've gotta move out by the end of this month!

If anyone here is from Malaysia and is interested in model kits, do check this out. My dad's collection has a total of 595 brand new + open-but-complete model and 648 boxes of incomplete, missing manuals etc

ScaleModelsMalaysia -> A Collection Of 595 Models Kit For Sale (http://z12.invisionfree.com/ScaleModelsMalaysia/index.php?showtopic=5754&st=0)

I hope its not against the rule to post up something irrelavant to plants here.

I also want to thank those of you who sent cards to us. It's very much appreciated.

ptktam
07-22-2009, 07:00 AM
It is a great sadness to hear the passing away of Tog Tan. Due to my busy schedule, I do not often come to this excellent website. Today I come and learnt of this very sad event. When I first became a member of Bananas.Org a few months ago, Tog asked me what kind of nana I grew. I told him that I do no know, but is is delicious and would like to give him a sample when he happens to pass by Hong Kong. Now I have just had my harvest, but there is no way for him to try my banana. Anyway, I have just posted a picture of my banana in my gallery to appreciate the interest Tog on my farm produce.

harveyc
07-22-2009, 12:21 PM
I collected some seed for Tog from the tobacco fields here and he was going to try to grow and roll his own cigars (not sure his thigh would be as good as a maidens though!). If anyone would like a pinch of it (it is like dust) - pm me with your address and I'll be happy to send it free of charge until I run out. I think he would like the gesture.

I received the seeds two days ago and will plant some today! Probably will start another batch in the winter to plant out in the spring but I'll get some practice now. Just need to make sure I don't sneeze around these tiny seeds! LOL Thanks for your generosity! :D

saltydad
07-22-2009, 01:51 PM
I also received the tobacco seeds, Cassie. Wow, they are indeed tiny! Thanks so much; these will be a reminder of Tog.

Taylor
07-22-2009, 02:53 PM
I don't have much room to talk because I never talked to Tog as far as I remember, just read many of his thoughtful and informational posts. However, I wanted to say to everyone that got seeds that I don't believe there is anything better to have from a person. Offspring from plants that a loved one cared for, and to be comforted with the fact that they will continue to prosper well after that person is gone. To me, these seeds are Tog's last footprint, but it is a big one that will keep on living. This is personal to me because 2 weeks before my Grandfather passed away in January, he wanted to know more about my banana plants. After a long discussion, I promised him that I would get him a hardy edible type this past spring and tell him what to do to make it thrive, not that he ever needed to be told what to do in the yard! Since we knew it was going to be fatal, the day before he passed away, when we were at the hospital with him, I woke him up and even asked him where he wanted them, in the berm in the backyard. I haven't fulfilled my promise, and it makes me feel sick inside, absolutely nauseous. The worst part is, there really isn't a good reason, too cold, too wet, not enough time, no pups available. My point is that we should cherish what we have and make something out of it like Tog did. I am really disgusted with myself every time I think about my unfulfilled promise, and I don't want anyone else to feel that way about Tog and his seeds. I'm not sure if this completely makes sense because I just threw a whole bunch of my own hidden emotions into it for whatever reason. I'm sorry.

I'm really grateful that he was here with us when he could be, and that his posts will continue to open the eyes of new members about the rich culture and flora of Malaysia, a place that hardly any of us will ever get to go to. You are really lucky to have had him as a father, Stefanie.

Taylor

The Hollyberry Lady
07-22-2009, 03:03 PM
Maybe you shouldn't be so hard on yourself, or be disgusted. You are likely just avoiding doing it because it's too painful to face the grief, not because you're just an awful person who didn't fulfill a promise!

http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/flower_wink.gif

lorax
07-22-2009, 04:51 PM
http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh196/HabloPorArboles/Bananas/FrontIssue2a.jpg

harveyc
07-22-2009, 04:54 PM
Very cool, Beth, Thanks!

The Hollyberry Lady
07-22-2009, 06:00 PM
Yes, that is very cool, Beth. http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/BigThumbs.gif

Dalmatiansoap
07-22-2009, 06:20 PM
Thats what I call a frontpage.
Great choice.
Best regards to editors!
:woohoonaner:

CValentine
07-22-2009, 06:29 PM
AWESOME TRIBUTE!!! :) ~Cheryl

Simply Bananas
07-22-2009, 07:07 PM
Lol, Great!

Bananaman88
07-23-2009, 12:06 PM
Yes, that is perfect for our next cover. A fitting tribute. Some day, if someone here ever hybridizes a new banana (my vote is it will be Gabe, though I know there are others here working on such things), it should be named 'Tog Tan'.

Taylor, buddy, you just about made me cry. If I lived closer to you, I'd go help you fulfill your promise. Like HBL said, you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure your grandfather would have understood. There's always next spring. You should take all the time you need. We're here for you buddy.

Jack Daw
07-23-2009, 12:41 PM
Well Beth, I have to admit, that now you have made my jaw fall down on the desk. Nice job.
But I just wonder, is that pic so blurry because it was cropped from a larger photo, or it's just a demo for the thread?
I saw this b4, when Ante posted it, and I still think it's one of the nanercoolest pics there's been in months. :D

Bananaman88
07-23-2009, 01:39 PM
I think it just looks blurry now becasue it was stretched for that post. Trust me, Beth will have it looking sharp for the cover!

saltydad
07-23-2009, 01:57 PM
Wow! Really brings a lump to my throat. Stephanie- you had quite a dad!!

lorax
07-23-2009, 02:11 PM
It's cropped out of a larger, landscape-format photo, and I'm working on sharpening it up without sacrificing the colours or clarity. However, the pic wasn't very high-res to begin with.

Stef, if you're out there and you have a high-res version of this pic, it would greatly help me out.

harveyc
07-23-2009, 02:35 PM
I was poking around trying to see if I could find a higher resolution copy of this photo anywhere, but didn't have any luck. However, I did come across a photo that made me chuckle and I thought I'd share. I wish there were some words from Tog to tell us what kind of joke this was!!! :ha:

<a href="http://photobucket.com/images/tog%20tan" target="_blank"><img src="http://i609.photobucket.com/albums/tt175/yctan338/110420091128.jpg" border="0" alt="Late Tog Tan Pictures, Images and Photos"/></a>

tophersmith
07-23-2009, 02:39 PM
Well my computer has been down for a while and I come back to find one of the only other Cigar smoking banana grower that I have written to gone. Life writing on this board will not be quite the same without you Tog. You always had me jealous of the different plants you were able to collect just be walking in the woods. Sorry we never got to exchange cigars. Stephanie it would be great if you could check in with us from time to time with any new pics you find, as your father will surely be missed.

island cassie
07-23-2009, 02:58 PM
Howard and Harvey - you are very welcome and good growing!!! I was sitting in a disreputable little bar yesterday (as you do) with Barb and Lyndon who were both smoking huge Churchills - and I had a little smile to myself as I watched them puffing away!

Taylor - everything in good time! Grieve for your Grandfather first, and when the time is right, choose and plant a banana for him. There is no rush - he will understand and know you loved him.

Lorax - as usual you have surpassed yourself - good going girl!!

Dalmatiansoap
07-23-2009, 06:47 PM
Whan I saw Harveys picture I couldnt resist myself and I think that this is a right place for this foto in Togs honor :).
As Harvey say, he was the best person here to tell us a bit about spicie
:woohoonaner:
Anyway my kids love it and calls him just "dragon".
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=19778&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=19778&ppuser=4565)
Maybe it is Togs influence?
Im starting to worry:ha::ha::ha:
:waving:

buzzwinder
07-23-2009, 09:31 PM
Lorax, I think that photo for the cover of BananasQuartely is an absolute Wonderful idea, Thank You, a very fitting tribute! :bananas_b

Kim
07-24-2009, 04:09 AM
I'm new and never got to know Tog Tan but I deffinately know the pain that comes with lossing somebody who cared about others. I can only send my depest regards to the famaly and friends that had the opportunity to know such a fine person. I can deeply say this with sincerity cause my father had passed away on June 2nd. I believe Tog Tan and fellow Banana's wanted to keep post going about Palms and so would I.
Best wishes and my deepest regards to all.

saltydad
07-24-2009, 12:07 PM
Kim, I agree with your comments, and want to offer my condolences to you on the loss of your dad.

Chironex
07-24-2009, 05:59 PM
When I scrolled down to see the cover for the next BQ, I got teary-eyed. I sure miss my buddy.

Tog Tan
07-29-2009, 08:56 AM
Hi everybody,

Now that dad's house would be returned in 2 days and the mess has been cleared, I just thought I'd share our experience of cleaning his house.. Here are some pictures..

His Model Kits BEFORE we had a weekend clearance sale
http://img199.imageshack.us/img199/8224/beforexif.jpg

There are so much because he used to be a judge and master builder for the local hobby shops.

.. n this is what was left after the sale,
http://www.imagechicken.com/uploads/tn1248879480003513800.jpg (http://www.imagechicken.com/viewpic.php?p=1248879480003513800&x=jpg)

THIS, is what we had to go through when we first started. I completely forgot to take a picture of the porch filled with plants! =(

http://www.imagechicken.com/uploads/tn1248879221068113700.jpg (http://www.imagechicken.com/viewpic.php?p=1248879221068113700&x=jpg)

http://www.imagechicken.com/uploads/tn1248879270086155300.jpg (http://www.imagechicken.com/viewpic.php?p=1248879270086155300&x=jpg)

As for the picture Beth asked for, his PC his currently sitting next to me. I haven't had the time to go through it yet. FYI, there are almost 500+ folders of pictures in there after I deleted the duplicates n unnecessary stuff (there were almost 2000 folders of pix earlier). I just hope you don't need it right away! I'll get it to you at most 1 week later. Do remind me if I forget!

PS: Imageshack was driving me up d wall, I had to resolve to other hosts..

Dalmatiansoap
07-29-2009, 09:37 AM
Man just dont know what to say.
Wish I live closer.
U did awesom job there Sally. Tog can be really proud.

harveyc
07-29-2009, 09:52 AM
Stephanie, if it's of any help, I believe that photo we want for the cover was taken between last December and this February.

I think I need to do a lot more collecting of stuff to leave something like that for my son to clean up. I had to change dirty diapers so it's only fair to leave a mess behind for him as well. :P

Patty in Wisc
07-29-2009, 11:30 AM
Stefanie, I saw the link you posted of your Dad's models - alone, & I say hats off to you girl! It makes us (at least me) realize we can go at any time & what will we leave behind for someone else to take care of? I have lots!!!
I love when you post...makes me feel like Tog is still around:)
May I ask, what are you doing with all of his many, many plants? Are they selling well?

justjoan
07-29-2009, 11:42 AM
I certainly wish I had joined this group a whole lot sooner, I would have loved to talk with your Dad, just about life in general. All those models, and his plant knowledge, in the threads I have read, a great personality was in there too. Stephanie, I had the same sort of issue when my Mom passed and though its a lot of work, a person can find out some interesting things in what is left behind. I too am starting to give things to my kids that they want and getting rid of excess stuff, cause we just never know! Bless you, your Dad would be proud of what you have accomplished.

Bananaman88
07-29-2009, 11:59 AM
Thanks for the update, Stefanie. You and your family continue to be in our prayers.

Tog Tan
07-29-2009, 02:44 PM
Harveyc,
Yeahh! I bet my dad was thinking the same! Haha You should leave more for your kids, may I suggest toys n comics? Haha.. They're worth a whole lot if kept in good condition. Maybe it would be good to make them work for the cash. At this point, I'm glued to ebay while asking myself why didn't he take good care of his toys and comics, otherwise I'm sucha happy girl right now! I'm like 'rich' toy-wise but my account is still pretty much starving Haha.. I still cant get over the fact that a plain plastic lookin ghostbuster toy car is worth usd140! *faints* But mine is in crappy condition.

I'll try to get the picture asap as I will be away for the weekend and assignments are starting to pile up..

.. n damn, I just so wishhhhh he took good care of his stuff. He left boxes after boxes of comics and they weren't nicely taken care of. One of them, if in mint condition is worth usd17,995!!! But sadly, it's not even in it's plastic case! INCREDIBLE HULK 181 CGC 9.8 * 1ST WOLVERINE APPEARANCE! - eBay (item 250473276922 end time Aug-06-09 19:00:27 PDT) (http://cgi.ebay.com/INCREDIBLE-HULK-181-CGC-9-8-1ST-WOLVERINE-APPEARANCE_W0QQitemZ250473276922QQcategoryZ35761QQcmdZViewItem)



Patty, Thank you, and I sure am wondering how my cousins are gonna cope when this happens to them. I was told my uncles have the same habit of collecting everything and anything! Hahaha

His plants were taken to his nursery, I'm not completely sure what's happening to them as my aunt will be taking care of them. I've got my hands full with his cigars, comics, toys and model kits, which are already driving me insane. I haven't gotten down to categorizing anything, just scanned through them roughly..

Bob
07-29-2009, 02:50 PM
Stephanie , glad to hear you're doing ok and sorting out the "old mans" things. I think of him often.

Dalmatiansoap
08-12-2009, 08:44 AM
I just writed tons of s**** here and delate all.
Ones that are increasing international spirit of this forum will understand all.
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=21026&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=21026&ppuser=4565)
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=21025&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=21025&ppuser=4565)
THANK YOU
:woohoonaner:

LilRaverBoi
08-12-2009, 09:24 AM
LOL...I love the 'Do not kick me' on the side!

justjoan
08-12-2009, 09:46 AM
I LIKED THAT TOO AND THE LITTLE GIRL IS BEAUTIFUL ALSO :waving:!!!!!!

harveyc
08-12-2009, 10:23 AM
I LIKED THAT TOO AND THE LITTLE GIRL IS BEAUTIFUL ALSO :waving:!!!!!!

Ditto!

Are those pitaya cuttings from Patty???

CValentine
08-12-2009, 10:24 AM
My Cerenity says 'Hi!' to 'Balana' Girl!

http://i668.photobucket.com/albums/vv49/valentines12/IMG_8429-1-1.jpg

My Ren calls them 'Bunnas' :D ~Cheryl

Jack Daw
08-12-2009, 10:42 AM
I just writed tons of s**** here and delate all.
Ones that are increasing international spirit of this forum will understand all.
Why would you write something bad? I don't really get it. :ha: :D Feel free to PM. :nanadrink:


My Cerenity says 'Hi!' to 'Balana' Girl!
Cerenity is her name or nickname?

CValentine
08-12-2009, 11:19 AM
Cerenity is her name...she is a serene child...quiet, happy personality :)

We call her Ren because she flits about and is happy and meek like a wren, singing constantly.

:) ~Cheryl

Dalmatiansoap
08-12-2009, 11:21 AM
Beauty,
how old is she?
Balana is 3 and half.
:woohoonaner:

CValentine
08-12-2009, 11:28 AM
Cerenity's birthday is April 16th - she is almost 3 1/2yo!
'Balana' is beautiful too & has the happiest smiling eyes! :) ~Cheryl

Patty in Wisc
08-13-2009, 02:45 PM
Ditto!

Are those pitaya cuttings from Patty???
How did you know Harvey??
I got the idea of the 'do not kick me' from Bob...when he said he'd write 'KICK ME' on usps pkgs LOL. It worked - the pkg looks great!
Ante, did the kids like the little cactus's for them? Are you upset with me?:(

harveyc
08-13-2009, 05:20 PM
How did you know Harvey??


Well, I knew you were going to send pitaya cuttings and the packaged looked like a good size for that. And the "kick me" sounded like something you'd write, you rebel! ;)

Jack Daw
08-13-2009, 05:46 PM
How did you know Harvey??
I got the idea of the 'do not kick me' from Bob...when he said he'd write 'KICK ME' on usps pkgs LOL. It worked - the pkg looks great!
Ante, did the kids like the little cactus's for them? Are you upset with me?:(
Alright, Patty, nice one. :02:
It was worth that happy balana girl smile if you ask me. ;)
Kids are just...:drum: ... kids. Gotta love their smiles.

Dalmatiansoap
08-14-2009, 04:36 AM
Ante, did the kids like the little cactus's for them? Are you upset with me?:(

They adore them. Now they have their own pots and constant fight witch one is bigger :). Patty, Im very thankfull to You!
U did what rare do.:nanadrink:
:woohoonaner:

Patty in Wisc
08-14-2009, 07:43 AM
Oh, I'm glad. I just wasn't sure what you meant :) Thanks
That Balana girl is just a cutie!
Bob sent me a nice siam ruby pup when mine died so I did a "pay it forward" thing. Seems Tog was good at that (getting back on topic LOL)

Christine1950
09-12-2009, 12:25 PM
I've been away from the forum for awhile and am very saddened to learn of Tog's passing. If it wasnt for him I wouldnt have a plant to be proud of today. Rest In Peace Tog. I'll miss you and all your kindness.
Christine

Dalmatiansoap
09-16-2009, 03:08 PM
Tree months since U left us.
I hope that U still enjoy in "green" up there.
Rest in peace mate.
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=23159&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=23159&ppuser=4565)
Miss Your comments:ha:

Patty in Wisc
09-18-2009, 10:54 PM
Yes, I still miss him & his comments too. I don't remember seeing this pic...is that bamboo?? Notice the cigar in his mouth- again LOL
Thanks for posting this pic Ante!! Geeze, 3 months already.

Lagniappe
09-19-2009, 02:01 AM
Damnit! I was doing O.K. and this pic makes me wish all the more that I could talk to my pal . I have a lot of questions left to throw his way.
Always remember, we only have a short while to share. While the best of us pass by like a shooting star, there are others who's observations may give us insight that we might overlook if not put into this perspective.

Dalmatiansoap
09-19-2009, 03:25 AM
Yes, I still miss him & his comments too. I don't remember seeing this pic...is that bamboo?? Notice the cigar in his mouth- again LOL
Thanks for posting this pic Ante!! Geeze, 3 months already.

Yes, it is bamboo. Piture is from my collection :).
:woohoonaner:

LilRaverBoi
09-19-2009, 05:57 PM
Notice the cigar in his mouth- again LOL
Oh yeah....typical Tog rocking the ubiquitous giant cigar! But you know this, Patty...you have the Tog naner in your signature. Yeah, I still miss him too....definitely think about him often.

Dalmatiansoap
10-12-2009, 02:02 PM
Well I just tought that this is the best place to post this picture:
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=24872&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=24872&ppuser=4565)
Untill I didnt know Tog I didnt know to enjoy is souch things.
Thank You for my peace of mind mate!
:woohoonaner:

Dalmatiansoap
11-01-2009, 12:36 PM
There is a custom in my country to light a candle today for souls of all our late friends and famillyes.
This one is for You my friend
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=26057 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=25673&ppuser=4565)

The Hollyberry Lady
11-01-2009, 12:56 PM
That is so nice, Dalmationsoap - we have that custom here too, for All Saint's Day today, and for All Soul's Day, tomorrow.

I will have a candle lit for my dad and brother, but will light one for Tog as well...

: )

Caloosamusa
11-01-2009, 01:31 PM
On All Saints Day I thought this might be appropriate in Memory of Tog's works, and more importantly the one who made him!

http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=26067&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=26067)

Dalmatiansoap
12-18-2009, 01:13 PM
Six months without him and I am still learning from old guy.
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=14769&size=1 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=14769&ppuser=3823)
Thank You Tog

Bob
12-18-2009, 04:49 PM
Seeing this makes me think its time for a cigar!..... even though the old man made fun of the mild ones I smoke...... I'll be looking up in honor when I do.....(if it starts raining I'll be flipping the bird skyward too:ha:)

momoese
12-18-2009, 04:58 PM
I'll light one up too.

saltydad
12-18-2009, 05:23 PM
I'll be symbolic here. Don't want to smoke at all after finally quiting 12 years ago after a 3 pack a day habit. I'll hoist a brew for absent friends. Wow, this still hurts. :-(

harveyc
12-18-2009, 08:57 PM
Tog had been trying to talk me to coming with him to the plant sales in Bangkok in December. Boy, sure wish I could take him up on the offer!

saltydad
12-19-2009, 03:01 PM
I know. I saw a beautiful tropical euphorbia the other day, and my first thought was to send an e-mail to Tog to find out whether it was a good start for me. Damn.

Patty in Wisc
12-19-2009, 03:31 PM
I'm thinking that, in the last 6 months, how many laughs & chuckles we missed out on with Tog gone. Damned heart attacks!
Just yesterday I listened to Dr Oz say the 3 days that most heart attacks happen is Dec 25 & 26th and Jan 1st. Y'all take care!!!

Dalmatiansoap
01-31-2010, 05:41 PM
This few lines from one of his e mails I wanted to share with all of You that knew him:
"...It is quite normal for ripe sds. SO you must really thank me for actually driving around looking for ripe sds! The palm was quite tall and in the middle of a road divider. I had to park my car and then walk there. Since there is no way for me to climb or get the sds, I took off my slipper and threw it at the fruits!!! As they fell, I collected them. Not fun cos it was a very hot day..."
This memory of him walking arround bare foot throwing slippers arround allways make me laugh. WOW, how I miss that positive spirit nowdays.
I hope You are laughing on this from somewhere up there too, mate:ha:
:woohoonaner:

saltydad
01-31-2010, 05:53 PM
That's so like Tog.I have the image in my head as I'm laughing and crying at the same time.

harveyc
01-31-2010, 06:00 PM
I think I'm a bit crazy like Tog, I guess. I once wanted to get some carob pods out of a street tree and didn't take my shoe off but decided to through my wallet at some pods. About the second time I did this my cash and credit cards went flying! Maybe I'll use my shoe next time! ;)

momoese
01-31-2010, 06:25 PM
The next time my park tree has pods I'll be sure to throw my shoe at em! :)

Jack Daw
01-31-2010, 07:17 PM
This few lines from one of his e mails I wanted to share with all of You that knew him:
"...It is quite normal for ripe sds. SO you must really thank me for actually driving around looking for ripe sds! The palm was quite tall and in the middle of a road divider. I had to park my car and then walk there. Since there is no way for me to climb or get the sds, I took off my slipper and threw it at the fruits!!! As they fell, I collected them. Not fun cos it was a very hot day..."
This memory of him walking arround bare foot throwing slippers arround allways make me laugh. WOW, how I miss that positive spirit nowdays.
I hope You are laughing on this from somewhere up there too, mate:ha:
:woohoonaner:
You know, funny is that I can imagine him doing that VERY VIVIDLY. :ha:

LilRaverBoi
02-01-2010, 01:43 PM
Great story! This is giving me a warm happy feeling imagining him doing that. A great anecdote of a truly amazing individual!

Bob
02-03-2010, 05:13 PM
This few lines from one of his e mails I wanted to share with all of You that knew him:
"...It is quite normal for ripe sds. SO you must really thank me for actually driving around looking for ripe sds! The palm was quite tall and in the middle of a road divider. I had to park my car and then walk there. Since there is no way for me to climb or get the sds, I took off my slipper and threw it at the fruits!!! As they fell, I collected them. Not fun cos it was a very hot day..."
This memory of him walking arround bare foot throwing slippers arround allways make me laugh. WOW, how I miss that positive spirit nowdays.
I hope You are laughing on this from somewhere up there too, mate:ha:
:woohoonaner:

I'm laughing too but, since I got to know him pretty well just picture him barefoot cursing at a tree:ha:

bananarama2
02-09-2010, 09:34 PM
Saw the name on a couple posts, but never actually followed it up until now. Better late than never I suppose, but Tog Tan sounded like a marvelous persona, and I have a sense of having missed out on something very special, indeed. Walking somewhere warm, breezy and surrounded by bananas, I'm sure, many blessings Tog, you will be missed.:waving

harveyc
06-11-2010, 02:34 AM
I've been thinking of Tog quite a bit lately and still miss this guy that became a good friend. I'll be away from the computer next week (scout camp) when it will be one year since Tog's death shocked so many of us. I remember Tog helping me through some tough times when doctor's thought my son Michael has a serious blood disorder. Maybe someday I'll make it to the plant show in Bangkok where Tog had suggested we meet up.

Miss you!

Dalmatiansoap
06-16-2010, 05:34 AM
Today is first year without Tog and Im sure that many of You as me are still feeling his spirit and energy shared among members here.
Thank You Tog for introduceing me to the "green side of the World" and learning me to share with others. Thank You for meeting all wonderfull ppls here and helping me in my first "banana" steps. Thank You for all tips and growers "seecrets"! For all comments about "Gods", U know what I mean:ha::ha::ha:
My favourite pics from Togs gallery:
http://www.bananas.org/gallery/watermark.php?file=15670 (http://www.bananas.org/gallery/showphoto.php?photo=15670)
:woohoonaner:

Bob
06-16-2010, 05:38 PM
What do you say about an old pal gone a year now?

Miss you old man! I'm sure there's a lot of us here who should:

Always remember to forget
The things that made you sad.
But never forget to remember
The things that made you glad."


I do!....... Cheers!:nanadrink:


( this was in lieu of a few innapropriate jokes we would have privately shared:ha:)

LilRaverBoi
06-16-2010, 10:57 PM
Tog, time will pass, but we'll always miss you. And we'll never forget how truly amazing of a person you were.

Mark Hall
06-17-2010, 10:05 AM
The Forums just not the same for me now he has gone. I know he was very good mates with a lot of you on here , but he had that special gift of making you think that you were his best mate.

Miss you mate.

saltydad
06-17-2010, 04:14 PM
Mark- Inded that was a quality he had. I (and it seems a lot of folks here) felt a close relationship with Tog even of our contact was only the org or e-mails. I also miss that terribly inquisitive mind, and I laugh at his collecting---I think maybe a bit of hoarding? LOL. Picture that pic of his hundreds of boxes of models, in addition to his plants. I see a bit of myself there! I can almost smell his cigar smoke now.

Hope you have good collecting where you are now, my friend. And I hope Stephanie is doing OK. If she's out there reading this, let us know how you're doing Steffie.

The Hollyberry Lady
06-17-2010, 07:04 PM
So nice to see people still posting about Tog and talking about him. His spirit will never die, so long as their are people to remember him and keep his light shining strong...


http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/DSCI1887.jpg


I remember how odd it was that Tog had mailed me some banana seeds, but then passed away while they were still in the mail. Even more odd receiving them, and knowing that I couldn't email him to thank him.

: (



Hard to believe it's been a year already, but nice to see members haven't forgot him. His spirit lives on and always will...


http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/a58-2.gif


: )

Dean W.
06-18-2010, 06:54 AM
I didn't know Tog Tan, but I have enjoyed reading his post and looking at his pictures. He seemed to know a lot about plants.

RIP

bananarama2
06-18-2010, 03:45 PM
Never had the pleasure while he was walking this earth, but as long as he remains a part of your thoughts and feelings, Tog Tan will still be here amongst us in spirit.:08:

Patty in Wisc
06-18-2010, 05:14 PM
I'll never forget the surprise of seeing the "In Memoriam: Tog Tan" thread. I thought it was some joke until I read what Beth wrote ... followed by total shock.
He did have a way of making everyone feel special :). He was very intelligent & quick witted & always offered great advice. Never said a nasty thing to anyone.
Someone (not a regular member) once sorta made fun of his name & he took it lightly ... saying something like "yup, that's my name & I'm proud of it" LOL. He was not insulted & even made a joke of it.
I wish I had some of his energy! He was GO GO GO .
I will also never forget the thread he started about his "3 foot druiting dwraf" nana plant LOL. Some of us joked about his spelling and he joked back at us. What a colorful man he was.
Miss you Tog & will never forget the shock & sadness of losing you.

The Hollyberry Lady
06-18-2010, 09:53 PM
Very nice post, Patty.



I wasn't going to share this until I knew for sure it would live, but what the hell...


As you guys know, Tog had sent me some seeds just before...well you know. :( I sowed half of them, but not right away, and waited and waited...

After about 6 or more months when nothing germinated, I gave up. Instead of dumping the pot though, I sowed some Kumquat and Keylime seeds in the same soil. Just as some of the fruit seeds began to pop however, a sprout I didn't recognize also emerged. I had actually forgot about Tog's banana seeds still being in there and was confused as to what it was at first...until I remembered. :02:

I was terrified to disturb the seeding until it grew more, but it just kind of sat in limbo and didn't grow much at all. In fact it's still barely grown at all but I intend on transplanting it into it's own pot very shortly. Here it is...


http://i375.photobucket.com/albums/oo193/hollyberrylady08/DSCI2309-1.jpg


To think I might actually have a banana plant from one of Tog's seeds!

: o

Unfortunately I couldn't tell you what kind it is though, as he sent so many different seed varieties and when I gave up on the pot, I threw out the label. I really don't care what it is anyway, just that it's his.

I decided to give the seedling to one of Tog's close pals - Bob. I won't mail it until it gets going though because it really hasn't grown much at all. We'll see...

Sowed the last of his seeds recently but won't give up so quickly this time, as I see they can take 6-8 months to pop. Hoping to have some more good luck.


Thanks Tog! :03:

: )

Bob
06-22-2010, 02:55 PM
Hollyberry, if you ever get that thing going and send it this way I'd treat it like gold and of course as always share any pups with those that want them. I know it's in goood hands and you're just the one to have one sprout and do well if anyone on the planet could..... well done!:woohoonaner:

Mark... you hit the nail on the head regarding Tog. He was so personale and would always be there for anyone who wanted advice or just to gab..... or trade friendly insults as we used to via email... but always in fun and good spirits..

harveyc
06-22-2010, 03:13 PM
I always thought I was his best friend and never understood what he saw in the rest of you who were also his best friend! :ha:

Bob, start a list and put me down for a pup in 2012 or whenever! :D

Dalmatiansoap
07-01-2010, 05:57 AM
Now unknown seedlings from Tog seeds.
http://i730.photobucket.com/albums/ww305/dalmatiansoap/FK014.jpg
:woohoonaner:

harveyc
07-01-2010, 09:28 AM
Hey, Ante, put me down on your list for pups too!!! :D

saltydad
07-01-2010, 06:04 PM
A Musa Tog Tan....sounds great to me! Put me on the lists.