up date 9-1-19
some better close ups for a better id
when I got over there this week end, found that the all the fingers had fallen off of last petals that have opened up on the bloom, and the two that opened up when I was there all fell off also within 12 hours or so. and the last fingers that did stay are very small, you can kind of see them on the lower left pic (above)
Sooo,, I did cut the bloom off Monday morning,, seems that all were going to fall off,,( I hope this was not a screw up,, still not knowing what the male flower forming looks like). so I have like four hands remaining on the stem
I did find some potassium nitrate (stump remover) Mixed at 82 grams per galloon and sprayed the entire plant..
Thank You in advance for any further advise, and thanks again for the previous advice.
I guess only time will tell . and if I messed up I will know what not to do the next time.